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Aug 20 2009

starsKardashian's Reality Show

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This blog doesn't need to be all Kardashian all the time, but it's worth noting in this space that not only is Kourtney Kardashian talking about her unplanned pregnancy, she is also talking about ambivalence and abortion - both incredibly common in these situations but both incredibly absent from most Hollywood baby bump coverage.

I don't know a whole lot about Kourtney - I don't watch her show and I'm not sure what sort of extraordinary things she's done to deserve a show - but what she told People magazine makes her sound like a normal person and not a creation of publicists:

"I definitely thought about it long and hard, about if I wanted to keep the baby or not, and I wasn't thinking about adoption."

"For me, all the reasons why I wouldn't keep the baby were so selfish: It wasn't like I was raped, it's not like I'm 16. I'm 30 years old, I make my own money, I support myself, I can afford to have a baby. And I am with someone who I love, and have been with for a long time."

That a "celebrity" would give voice to those feelings and ideas is refreshing because that's what we hear so often from regular people who live far outside the spotlight.

Less refreshing is what her doctor told her when she sought medical counsel about what to do: "My doctor told me there is nothing you will ever regret about having the baby, but he was like, 'You may regret not having the baby.' And I was like: That is so true."

One would hope that a physician would have a more balanced opinion about terminating an unplanned (and perhaps unwanted) pregnancy, but let's hope for the baby's sake the doctor was right this time.

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"...but let's hope for the baby's sake the doctor was right this time."

What?! Life is ALWAYS right for the baby. How EXACTLY might the baby benefit from an abortion? Remember, in an abortion, the baby DIES.


I agree. How is abortion right for the baby? I'm proud of the doctor and proud of Kourtney's decision to talk about it.


I thought what the doctor told her was spot on. Having been in this situation, abortion can create an agony that is very near impossible to overcome. Why not remind someone that there are different kids of regret. It helps to hear these things when faced with this type of decision ... because the outcome is irreversible.

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