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Jul 09 2008

starsToddler Time

The Baby Borrowers is back tonight - and this time the teen "parents" are caring for toddlers. 

 

Toddlers, as they soon find out, are a whole lot different than babies - they're mobile, they have tempers, and there are lots of potty-training mishaps.  It may surprise you to see how the couples handle this new set of challenges.  Just because things went smoothly for some with the babies doesn't mean toddlers will be easy too.

 

Shows like this one provide a great opportunity to talk with the teens in your life about sex, love, relationships and pregnancy prevention.  To get the conversation started, check out our Discussion Guides.  And tell us what you think of the show, the lessons contained within, and your reaction to the experiment...take our short online survey or leave us your comments on the blog. 

 

Tune in to NBC tonight to find out who says "This is where they go running for the condom aisle!" and why. 

Jul 03 2008

starsThe "social experiment" contines...

Episode 2 of the Baby Borrowers premiered last night (July 2) on NBC and was full of many more real life situations for the "parents" to deal with. 

After sleepless nights and busy days feeding, changing, and playing with their infants, two of the "moms" make unexpected requests to their boyfriends -- they want to go to work. And just as the pressure of maintaining a job, house, and family is really starting to build, the "parents" must say goodbye to their infants and get their first evaluation from the real moms and dads of their former babies.

What did you think of Episode 2?  If you missed it, visit the Baby Borrowers official site to watch clips and see interviews with the teen parents.  Then come back here and let us know  what you think on our brief online survey.

Jul 01 2008

starsReaction to Baby Borrowers

Thanks to all of you who have posted your thoughts about the NBC show, The Baby Borrowers.  In addition to the blogging (verb) that has already been done here on the blog (noun), we have also gotten comments about the show on one of our websites---TheNationalCampaign.org

By no means complete, here is a flavor of some of the comments we have gotten to date from our website.  The Baby Borrowers runs for five more weeks.  Please continue to let us know what you think. 

Jun 26 2008

starsB3--BloggingBabyBorrowers

BB.jpgThe NBC series The Baby Borrowers premiered last night.  We are anxious to hear the reaction of those of you who saw the show.  Some have been highly critical of the show for separating the babies from their parents.  Others have praised the show show and have told us that they think it will be educational. You've seen our take in previous blog postings.

Et tu you?  What's your take?

Jun 24 2008

starsSpeed Dressing



And now a break from Gloucester...

 

A provocative (!) ad has been making the internet/YouTube rounds over the past 48 hours.  In the purported ad for staid department store J.C. Penney, two teenagers get undressed and then time themselves as they quickly put their clothes back on.  The ad ends as the teen boy and girl walk past mom on the way to the basement to "watch TV" and the words "Today's the day to get away with it" appear on the screen.   We clever viewers realize that mom is being duped--that the young Lotharios are actually heading downstairs for a roll in the hay.  Aren't we smart?

 

Turns out the ad wasn't actually an ad for J.C. Penny at all, according to a story in today's Wall Street Journal.  The "Speed Dressing" ad, according to the WSJ report, was created without J.C. Penney's knowledge or consent. 

 

 

Jun 20 2008

starsBaby Mama Drama: Update!

Unless you have been living under a rock for the past 24 hours, you now know that several students from a high school in Gloucester, MA  apparently made a pact to become pregnant and raise their babies together. This news broke the very same day that 17-year old actress Jamie Lynn Spears gave birth to a baby girl.  Needless to say, these two events have  focused national attention on the issue of teen and unplanned pregnancy.

So, what do we think?  See below:

1.  Gloucester High Teens: selected press clips, resources for parents and educators, and other pertinent links, and a recent Pregnant Pause post on this issue

2.  Jamie Lynn Spears: The National Campaign statement, selected press clips, and resources for parents and educators

UPDATE:

Sarah Brown on the CBS Early Show, June 23rd

Also, check out The National Campaign's fearless leader Sarah Brown on the June 20th edition of The Today Show:

 

Keep an eye on TheNationalCampaign.org for up-to-date info on these and other stories.

Jun 13 2008

starsPeople are Buzzing About "The Baby Borrowers"

Dozens of news organizations are picking up an AP story today with news that readers of this blog already know:  NBC's new reality show, "The Baby Borrowers," is a great way for teens (and everyone) to start talking about preventing teen pregnancy.

The show follows five teen couples who think they're ready for parenthood, as they care for babies, toddlers, pre-teens, teens and senior citizens.  We urge everyone to check it out on Wednesday, June 25 at 8pm ET/PT.

A discussion guide to help facilitate conversations after watching the show is available from The National Campaign.  For the AP story about a National Campaign Youth Leadership Team viewing party, click here.

Watch more clips from the first episodes of "The Baby Borrowers" after the jump.

Jun 02 2008

starsAbstinence Vs. Contraception: The Culture Wars Continue

A new battle front in the culture wars has opened.  The issue is ICK -- in this case, some arguably salacious material in a sex ed curriculum. 

 

Here are a few thoughts: advocates on all sides of the sex ed battles have found sections in various curricula that they dislike.  As a general matter, the right dislikes sexually explicit content (the current flap) and the left routinely flags material that is medically inaccurate, homophobic and/or tied to religion.  It seems that almost anyone who sets foot into sex education offends at least someone.  It's tough terrain.    

 

So, what's a parent to do?  By all means review what your child's school plans to offer in sex ed 101.  If you find aspects of the curriculum that you don't like, consider having your child opt out of the class or perhaps just one session.  

 

But if you do so, keep in mind the following:

 

1. Some sex ed programs have been proven to help reduce the risk of teen pregnancy.  It is far better to have your child taught using an effective program than one lacking any evidence of good results.

 

2.  The overall popular culture that our children live in is very sexually explicit---and remember, it is on the watch of everyone reading this note that our culture has become what it is. Your children know and wonder about and hear tales of things that many of us old ones still don't get.  What makes you blush would hardly be noticed by the vast majority of teens.  Sorry.  It's the truth. 

 

3.  You are bound to find something that you do not agree with in any curriculum.  The question therefore is---on balance---does the curriculum seem right overall?  Does one disagreeable passage negate what might be 100 pages of positive material?  Analogy: Do you vote for a political candidate because you agree with him/her on every issue or just on most issues?

 

 4 . If you do remove your child from a class or curriculum, all that does is increase the burden on YOU to become a top flight sex educator.  Are you willing to do that?  To learn about the reality of teens' lives and the choices/pressures facing them, and then offer accurate, complete and compassionate advice?

 

Discuss.

 

May 21 2008

starsSome Enchanted Evening

stay_out_loud_prom1.gif While Prom Night may be little more than a distant memory to most of us, for this year's crop of seniors and juniors (and in some rare cases, sophomores and freshmen), Prom 2008 is right around the corner. 

And while you'll hear all about the perfect dress, and how expensive (and stupid) corsages are, and whether they can rent a stretch Hummer, let's be real - what you're really worried about happens after prom.

To that end, check out our semi-regular feature "Stay Out Loud" on our sister site StayTeen.org.  This short essay section features different topics important to teens and this month's feature on Prom Night is written by Becca, a member of our Youth Leadership Team.  

We'd love to know what you think!

 

May 16 2008

starsWhat's Your View?

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The lovely ladies of ABC's "The View" talked teen pregnancy on Thursday with actors from "One Life to Live" and The National Campaign's own Marisa Nightingale.  Kristen Alderson, who plays 16-year-old Starr Manning on the daytime drama, and Brandon Buddy, who plays her 17-year-old boyfriend Cole Thornhart, talked about their pregnancy storyline - what they've learned, the reaction they're getting from readers of their blog and how they hope its helping others deal with the challenges of teen sexuality.  Marisa contributed some excellent words of wisdom to the segment as well, encouraging parents to talk to their kids about sex and relationships. You can see the whole thing here.